never satisfied

it seems as if we as a society are never completely satisfied with when the opposite gender flirts with us. which is a shame, because we are all just trying to find that special someone in our lives, but lately it seems as if I have been a bit hypocritical about it. I have caught myself complaining to friends, that guys don't put themselves out there more, and then other times I complain to them because guys put themselves out too much. it seems as if I am one of those common denominators that is never pleased. but I think in my case it is the fact that I get attention when I don't want it. I have plenty of stories about this topic but this one in particular I was getting an innocent pedicure with my sister a few weeks ago when the gentleman who was working on my feet(that's right, a guy was giving me a pedicure..) asked if I wanted to go get a beer with him that night. I politely declined and he proceeded to work on my toenails, and he did a pretty good job for being a guy actually.. but then later he asked if he could set me up with his brother that evening; to which I politely declined as well. and then if that wasn't enough, he asked me once more at the end of my pedicure if I was sure I didn't want to go out for a beer that night with him... how many times can I be polite? too many I guess. I graciously declined again. in this case, the flirting was unwanted.. but then there are plenty of times that I am disappointed at the lack thereof. so I guess instead of complaining next time, I just need to remember that there will be a happy medium eventually and to be patient; then if all else fails, get a fake engagement ring to ward off potential creepers.